YOUR COACH, TRACY

I didn’t start this journey by thinking oh I’m going to be a sex therapist, I’m going to go to med school and be an OB/GYN. In fact if you would have asked an 18 year old me what I was going to feel fired up about doing, nothing even closely related to sex would have been my answer.

My journey started when I was 24 years old, recently separated from my long-term boyfriend, and in the ICU due to kidney failure (which was unrelated to the breakup - for the record) and decided that I was done not being fulfilled. And yes, that was about much more than sex at the time, but it included sex, because I knew I never wanted a relationship where my pleasure wasn’t a priority ever again.

One new, slightly used kidney, and another failed relationship later at the age of 29 I was finally confident, unashamed, and in control of my sex life. I had already come so far from who I was before that day in ICU in so many other ways, but this was the icing on the cake.

my friends started asking me what my secret was. How many kegels do I need to do? What's the magic position? What is the holy grail of sex toys that will fix their orgasms? (SPOILER ALERT ALL OF THESE ARE THE WRONG QUESTIONS)

We are the generation raised on “women can do anything!” Except apparently to do anything and be what we want to be and also enjoy sex! I knew we needed better. So I hit the books, joined a certification program, and studied up as quickly as I could to know the REAL facts, and science behind the art of sex and sexuality.

And now I am OBSESSED with helping other women confidently have the same control and agency over the sex life and sexual pleasure.

I can’t wait to help you find your most authentic sexual expression.

I've found a better way to transform your relationship with sex